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Below is the video fill-in the blank and discussion questions for the first session of Grace Together. This curriculum can be used as a one-day event, a weekend retreat or workshop, or as a 6-week group. This material connects marriage ministry to Christian values to help couples enrich their marriage.

 

WHO ARE WE AS A COUPLE AND WHY ARE WE HERE?

 

Marriage is where two individuals form an ______________.

Our biblical text for this workshop is 1 Colossians ____: ____________

How many words were in the Javier and Gina’s “rule of life”? _______

 

 

Javier and Gina’s Rule of Life

We will commit to seeking God’s Kingdom first in all that we are and do. Our home will be a place where family, friends, and guests find joy, comfort, peace, and happiness. We will exercise wisdom in what we choose to eat, read and do in our home. We will learn to love another as we develop our own talents. We will exercise initiative in accomplishing our life’s goals. We will act on situations as opportunities, rather than to be acted upon. We will always try to keep ourselves free from addictive and destructive habits. We will develop habits that free us from old labels and limits and expand our capabilities and choices. Our money will be our servant, not our master. Our wants will be subject to our needs and means. We will honor God and choose to obey him every day of our lives.

 

 


 

DISCUSSION

 

1. How did you meet and marry?

2. What is your partner’s best character trait from the list below?

My partner is

1

Wise

They have been someone I turn to for wise help
2

Courageous

They do not shrink away from relationship fears
3

Persevering

They will persevere in tough times
4

Honest

They are honest and sincere
5

Authentic

They are warm and genuine
6

Kind

Does kind and compassionate things for me
7

Fair

Always does her/his share
8

Forgiving

Is easily able to forgive me
9

Humble

Is a humble person, not self-seeking
10

Thoughtful

Is careful and thoughtful in what is said or done in our relationship
11

Self-Controlled

Is able to remain cool under pressure and regulate impulses or emotions
12

Grateful

Expresses gratitude toward me for how I contribute to the relationship
13

Hopeful

Is hopeful and expects the best
14

Humor

Has a great sense of humor and is playful
15

Or something else

Has a great sense of humor and is playful
16

Godly

Holds a good set of spiritual beliefs
17

Committed

Never waivers in commitment to our relationship and me
18

Intimate

Is someone who makes our sexual experiences positive for me
19

Companion

Makes me feel like I am never truly alone
20

Protective

Protects me, always makes me feel safe
21

Insightful

Knows what makes me tick, is aware of what is going on in my emotions and mind

3. How has that trait been a gift to you in your family life?

4. How do the character traits you both possess contribute to your “US”…Your purpose and intention in being married.