Watch the first video
https://www.rightnowmedia.org/Content/illustration/98326
With humor!
There are three scenes of “conflict. With each scene identify as a couple the pain, defense and offense for him and her:
- The Forgot the Anniversary Scene
- The That is my mother’s favorite recipe Scene
- The Good Night Scene
In a more realistic depiction…how is the marital conflict in this clip depicted by the couple…what would you suggest they do differently?
Then for the second video
https://www.rightnowmedia.org/Content/illustration/259705
They talk about better ways to “avoid the crazy cycle”…
Go back to the pain—defense cycle. Can you together map this couple’s pattern?