Watch the first video
There are three scenes of “conflict. With each scene identify as a couple the pain, defense and offense for him and her:
- The Forgot the Anniversary Scene
- The That is my mother’s favorite recipe Scene
- The Good Night Scene
In a more realistic depiction…how is the marital conflict in this clip depicted by the couple…what would you suggest they do differently?
Then for the second video
They talk about better ways to “avoid the crazy cycle”…
Go back to the pain—defense cycle. Can you together map this couple’s pattern?